The teacher answered, "There’s a large wheat field in front. Walk there without turning back, and take just one leaf. If you can find one leaf that you think it’s extraordinary, it means you have found luv."
So Plato walked .. and not long after that, he came back empty handed.The teacher asked him,"Why don’t you bring any leaf?"Plato said, "I can only bring just one leaf and when I walk I cant turn back. Actually I have found one extraordinary leaf, but I dunno whether there’s anymore extraordinary leaf in front, so I didn’t take that leaf. When I walked further, I realized that the leaves I found are not as extraordinary as I’ve found previously. In the end, I didn’t take any single leaf."Then the teacher told him, "So .. that is luv."Another day, Plato asked his teacher again, "What is marriage? How can I find it?"The teacher answered, "There is a forrest in front. Please walk there and don’t look back. You can only cut one tree, and cut the one that you think is the highest, because that means you find what is marriage."Plato walks there, and he came back not long after that bringing one tree. The tree is not a very good tree and not a very tall one, either. It’s just an ordinary tree.The teacher asked him, "Why do you cut that kind of tree?"Plato answered, "Because, according to my previous experience, after walking thru the field, I came back with nothing. So this time, when Isaw this tree, and I think the tree is not so bad, so I decided to cut it and bring it here. I don’t want to lose another chance to get it."And the teacher said, "Well .. that is marriage."Little notes:The more you look for luv, you will find nothing. Luv is in your heart, when you can control your desire and your hope to find something better.When you have endless hope and wish of luv, you will only get emptiness .. because you wont get anything and time can not be turned back. Accept luv for what it is.Marriage is a continuation of luv. It’s a process of having chances, and you choose the best option among all the alternatives. If you want to have a perfect match and a perfect marriage, you will only waste your time,because there is no perfect marriage
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