I have received this query, my children have been taken away from me, I miss them, do not know their current address nor where I can send my letters or messages. yOUR SEPARATED OR WHATEVER. My advise has worked for many clients. write to them and keep two copies in two separate clear books, which you file and give as one day those children will search and find you. give them their copy which will cover the years of no communication. This should work for you. write me hilman1108@yahoo.com