RELATIONSHIPS

May 8, 2005

I learn a lot from www.oprah.com, you can join this website of Oprah for free with daily updates.
Oprah has tackled so many issues. My search always checks the discussions on relationships.
Readers whose spouse who is or was unfaithful, read about the cheating husbands, sexuality, infidelity etc.

I always ask myself why do husbands or wives cheat? Oh yes women do cheat, and the husband is the last to know.

In one talk I gave before mostly married men , I performed an exercise. I asked them to text or call their wives that moment. It was lunch time. Majority got no answer or immediate response.
Perhaps their wife or spouse was driving, sleeping, in a business lunch or whatever, no response. Boy, most of the men panicked. Do you know where your spouse is now and what she is doing?

The point of the exercise is you must never take your spouse for granted. Listen to her, say hi, say I love you . You are presummably friends right? No, what are you waiting for. Make your spouse your best friend otherwise someone will do it for you.

Nowadays, spouses relationships break down because of the
break down of communication.
Another reason is no forgiveness even for the smallest mistake of the other.
A friend just discovered that her husband impregnated another woman. She is depressed, what she can do?
Peggy Vaughn says, work for forgiveness. Go to counselling,
talk about it with your spouse. Do not ran away.
Face up to it. Peggy discovered her husband cheated her 12 times in 15 years. She stuck to her husband because he was sorry and willing to change.
Peggy says, even in the best marriages, this can happen. A cheating spouse who wants a wonderful spouse and another love on the side.

Men are generally very sexual, who reacts to what he sees, smells, touches, feels and hears. Men have to sublimate and divert their energies. Intense prayer and exercise helps a lot.

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